just a PSA for all you ladies out there:

it does NOT matter how long you were together
does not matter if you had sex
does not matter if you were in love

if a guy is blatantly treating you like shit, drop him. I know you've probably tricked yourself into thinking that you need him, or that you've tried to make excuses for him, but he is not worth your pain. he is not worth your tears, your panic attacks, or the time you spent wondering if he'd text you back.

i know that nicholas sparks has tricked you into thinking that love will solve all of your problems, but it rarely does. you've got a whole life to live, and if you die alone, honestly who cares? i want to die knowing i lived the fuck out of my life and enjoyed it. i don't want my life to end unfulfilled because i spent it chasing the idea of love.

all you have to do honey is put love out into the world, and it will come back. don't go looking; it will find you.